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Is it completely selfish to want more of Master's time?

I've been trying to hold myself in check lately, especially with him taking more than one job, but lately it seems like if I don't say something to him first, I don't hear from him. Like Monday for example... I went about my day and did my own thing, doing anything I could to keep my hands off my phone. And its wasn't until I texted him at 8 that night that I actually heard from him, even though it wasn't actually "heard from him" so much as "cyber tied down" by him. And that was it. for the whole night. I got a message that said "*ties you down*".....

And lately he's just been so tired. On my end it sucks because I can't do anything about it. But what gets to me even more is that he has a wife who can do something about it. Who can support him and try to make life a little easier on him. But the only thing I hear from him that she does is leave messes for him to pick up after work.

Maybe this is just a bitch-fest on my part. Or maybe there's something here that we need to address. But I'm still not understanding them. I just don't get it, and I want to. I want to understand, but nobody seems willing to explain it to me. She completely ignored me the other day after putting words in my mouth while talking to him. And now he's all quite and always tired...

Something isn't right. :(

I feel like a possession. I can't actually do anything for him, with our relationship being OL and on the phone. And truly, lately I've found nothing fulfilling in cumming on schedule or doing my own thing all day long. Maybe I need a bit more micromanaging. Which is odd, because I always said I didn't want to be told what to do all day long, but right now maybe it's a contact thing. To know that I'm actually useful and fulfilling a need for him.

And right now, I feel pretty useless and neglected and alone...